Sikubuyisa kanjani lokho kucabanga kwabanqobi?
Kunesimanga esixakile esenzeka emjahweni wesicoco seNdunankulu wase-UK njengamanje futhi ukubaluleka kwaso ezweni lethu lokuhweba kuzobonakala njengoba sandisa le ndatshana. Ompetha bamanje beligi, iManchester United, balele endaweni yesikhombisa kuligi baphoxwe enye yezimbangi zabo ezinolaka iLiverpool ngempelasonto edlule. ILiverpool ibingakwazi ngisho nokunethezeka ngesijeziso esengeziwe esilahlekile (kwabathathu abaklonyelisiwe ngabo) futhi yaqhubeka yaphumelela abawinile aba-3 - 0. Ukukhuluma phakathi kwabalandeli beManchester United ukuthi bekungomunye wemidlalo engenazihibe futhi engenamandla abayenzile eminyakeni edlule, kanti inkulumo phakathi kwabalandeli beLiverpool ithi lo kungaba unyaka wabo, baphupha ngokuwina isicoco okokuqala eminyakeni engama-24.
Akukona nje ukuwa okumangalisayo kompetha obekuthusa abalandeli babo, ukukhuluma komzimba kanye nesimo sengqondo sabadlali babo kubonakala kusolisa. Umugqa wabo obheke phambili usususele ekubeni ngomunye wabadlali abaphambili bebhola emhlabeni ngesizini edlule, sekubukeka njengama-rans kulokho okuzwakala njengokucwayiza kweso, ukuzethemba kwabo kubukeka kudutshuliwe nokuzethemba kwabo kungekho. Ukuthi lolu shintsho lwenzeke kanjani ngokushesha okungaka kungenye yezimfihlakalo zebhola. Yebo umphathi wangaphambilini uthathe umhlalaphansi, kepha abadlali abawine iligi ngebanga elithile kwisizini edlule bangabadlali abafanayo esikwatini manje ngokungezwa kwabadlali ababili abengeziwe ababiza ama- € 85 million emalini yokudlulisa. Manje konakelephi futhi kuphi ukuhlobana kokuhweba? Ngabe bashintshe amasu abo esewonke, bashintshe indlela yabo yonke, ingabe i-mind-set isishintshile?
Uma sibheka u-Ms wethu odumile we-3 wezohwebo asikwazi ukuphendula udaba lokuphathwa kwemali maqondana nebhola, ngokufanayo indlela leyo ayihambelani namaphuzu esifuna ukugxila kuwo yize indlela elahlekile ingalimaza isethi ukuzethemba kwabadlali. Kepha okubaluleke kakhulu ukusethwa kwengqondo futhi kule nkinga ethile esifuna ukugxila kuyo.
Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi umphathi nomqeqeshi oyinhloko weLiverpool ngudokotela we-NLP. Kulabo emphakathini wethu abangajwayele i-NLP * sizonikeza isichasiselo esifushane kakhulu phansi kwendatshana. Imenenja iphinde yaqasha izinsizakalo zomqeqeshi oshukumisayo nodokotela wezengqondo wezemidlalo ukuze athole "amakhanda endaweni efanele". Futhi kubukeka sengathi kusebenze njengoba iLiverpool iguqulwe ukusuka ekuqedeni u-6-7th kwiligi yasekhaya yaba yizimbangi zangempela zezicoco.
Manje njengabathengisi abangabodwa asinakukwazi ukusebenzisa izinsizakalo ze-psyche yezemidlalo edumile ukusenza sibe nomqondo ofanele wokunqoba ekuhwebeni, ngenkathi ukuba ngudokotela weNLP kungadla isikhathi esifanayo futhi kubize, ngakho-ke yini esingayifunda maqondana nokufa kweqembu elilodwa futhi ekugcineni iqembu elilodwa likhuphuke futhi likusebenzise ekuhwebeni?
Abadlali abaphumelelayo abalahlekelwa yikhono labo ngobusuku obubodwa. Uma bethatha ukuthi balungile futhi basesimweni sokuqina kwezemidlalo okuqinisekisa ukuthi basesimweni esiphakeme futhi bangafaka umdlalo ezingeni eliphakeme, mhlawumbe ngokungabi ngaphezu kweminyaka engama-34, abadlali bezinga lomhlaba abalahlekelwa ngokuzumayo ikhono. Njengoba kushiwo njalo emibuthanweni yezemidlalo - "ifomu liyisigaba sesikhashana lingunaphakade". Ngakho-ke laba badlali kufanele babuyise ifomu labo. Kungadingeka ukuthi bashintshe indlela yabo, basebenze kanzima kwezinye izivivinyo emkhakheni wokuqeqesha, kepha kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ukucabanga kwabo kudinga ukuguqulwa ngaphezu kwakho konke okunye.
Abadlali badinga ukukhunjuzwa, hhayi nje kuphela ngenkazimulo yabo yakamuva, kodwa nokuthi umqondo wabo wabaphumelele wawulungiswa kanjani ngesikhathi sempumelelo yabo nokuthi kubaluleke kangakanani lokhu emiphumeleni. Ukuthi bona kanye nabasebenzi babo babaqeqeshele kanjani indlela yokucabanga ukuze iqembu likhule. Abadlali abaphambili kulo mdlalo abakwazi ukusinda ngekhono kuphela, izingcweti zomhlaba ezifana noLionel Messi noChristiano Ronaldo basebenza kanzima ngendlela emangalisayo ekuhwebeni nakumdlalo ngamunye.
Ukuntuleka kwefomu nemiphumela emkhakheni wokudlala kungaqhathaniswa nathi ukubekezelela ukwehla kwemali ngemuva kokwehlulwa. Ngemuva kwalokho singabheka inqubo yethu, mhlawumbe kunguqulo yethu yenkundla yokuziqeqesha - i-akhawunti yedemo, ukuze sikwazi ukubhekana nanoma yiziphi izingqinamba esingaba nazo. Ukuntula kwethu ukuzethemba ngokuphelele kungahle kubhekwane nakho.
Ngokufanayo singabuyela kuzisekelo futhi sihlole ngempela uma sinamathela kuhlelo lwethu lokuhweba. Singabheka nezincwadi zethu zokuhweba ukubona ukuthi siphumelele kuphi futhi sibheke imikhondo yokuthi kungani lokho kwaba yimpumelelo. Ngabe ububanzi bezimakethe, ngabe bekuhamba phambili, ngabe sikujabulele ukuzuza lapho kushintshwe khona inqubomgomo ebaluleke kakhulu. Uma ukuzethemba kwethu kuzwakala kubuthakathaka ngempela lapho sibuyela emkhakheni wethu wokudlala, kunokuzikhandla imizuzu engamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye ephelele yomdlalo, kungani singalinganiseli isikhathi sethu enkundleni sibe sesalowo obambele kuze kulungiswe umqondo wethu?
Njengabagijimi abangochwepheshe njengabadayisi abangochwepheshe hhayi nsuku zonke usuku lokuwina. Akuwona wonke amasu isu lokuwina, kepha uma sike sathola impumelelo ngaphambi kokuthi sazi kahle ukuthi singazibeka kanjani izingqondo zethu ukuze siphinde siqale ukuhweba. Eqinisweni esinye isaga esidala semidlalo singasebenza; “Okungakubulali kukwenza uqine”. Uma sibhekane nokudilizwa kanye nokulahleka kwefomu okwesikhashana lapho silulama kuzo zombili izingqondo zethu zomthengisi kuzoba namandla kakhulu ngakho.
I-NLP - Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) iyindlela yokuxhumana, intuthuko yomuntu siqu, kanye nokwelashwa kwengqondo okwenziwe nguRichard Bandler noJohn Grinder eCalifornia, e-United States ngawo-1970. Abadali bayo bathi ukuxhumana phakathi kwezinqubo zezinzwa ("neuro"), ulimi (“linguistic”) kanye nezindlela zokuziphatha ezifundwe ngokuhlangenwe nakho ("programming") nokuthi lokhu kungaguqulwa ukufeza izinhloso ezithile empilweni. AbakwaBandler noGrinder bathi amakhono abantu abangahlukile “angalingiswa” kusetshenziswa indlela ye-NLP, lawo makghono angatholwa yinoma ngubani. I-Bandler ne-Grinder nayo ithi i-NLP ingaphatha izinkinga ezinjenge-phobias, ukudangala, ukuphazamiseka kwemikhuba, izifo zengqondo, i-myopia, ukungezwani komzimba, izifo ezibandayo ezibandayo nokufunda, kaningi ngeseshini eyodwa. I-NLP yamukelwe ngabathile be-hypnotherapists nasezingqungqutheleni ezimakethwa kwezamabhizinisi nakuhulumeni.
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