Kodi timawabwezeretsa bwanji malingaliro a opambanawo?
Pali zodabwitsa zomwe zikuchitika mu mpikisano wapamwamba wa UK pakadali pano ndipo kufunikira kwake mdziko lathu lamalonda kudzaonekera pamene tikulitsa nkhaniyi. Osewera pano ampikisano, Manchester United, agona achisanu ndi chiwiri muligi atachititsidwa manyazi ndi m'modzi mwa adani awo owopsa Liverpool sabata yatha. Liverpool imatha ngakhale kulandira chiwongola dzanja chapadera (mwa atatuwo omwe adapatsidwa) ndipo adakwanitsa kupambana opambana 3 - 0. Kulankhula pakati pa mafani a Manchester United ndikuti inali imodzi mwamasewera omwe sanachite bwino komanso opanda chiyembekezo omwe adachita mzaka zambiri, pomwe olankhula pakati pa mafani a Liverpool ndikuti uwu ungakhale chaka chawo, akulakalaka kupambana mpikisano koyamba m'zaka 24.
Sikuti kugwa modabwitsa kuchokera pachisomo cha akatswiri komwe kwakhala koopsa kwa owatsatira, mawonekedwe amthupi ndi malingaliro onse a osewera awo akuwoneka kuti akukayika. Kutsogola kwawo kwatha kukhala imodzi mwabwino kwambiri mu mpira wapadziko lonse msimu watha, kuti awoneke ngati ma rans pazomwe zimamveka ngati kuthwanima kwa diso, chidaliro chawo chikuwoneka kuti chikuwombedwa komanso kudzikhulupirira kwawo kulibe. Momwe kusinthaku kwachitikira mwachangu ndichimodzi mwa zinsinsi za mpira. Inde manejala wakale adapuma pantchito, koma osewera omwe adapambana ligiyi patali mu nyengo yapitayi ndi omwewo omwe ali mgululi tsopano ndikuwonjezeranso osewera ena awiri omwe adawononga ma 85 mamiliyoni amauro pamitengo yosamutsira. Ndiye chalakwika ndi chiyani ndikufunika kwakuti kugulitsa? Kodi asintha njira zawo zonse, asintha njira zawo zonse, malingaliro awo asintha?
Poyang'ana 3 Ms wathu wamalonda wodziwika bwino sitingathe kuyankha pankhani yokhudza kusamalira ndalama mokhudzana ndi mpira, momwemonso njirayo siyofunika pamalingaliro omwe tikufuna kuganizira ngakhale njira yotayika itha kuvulaza anthu chidaliro cha osewera. Koma chomwe chili chofunikira kwambiri ndi malingaliro ndipo ndizomwe tikufuna kuziganizira.
Ndikoyenera kudziwa kuti manejala komanso wamkulu wa Liverpool ndi dokotala wa NLP. Kwa iwo omwe ali mdera lathu omwe sadziwa NLP * tikupatsani chidule mwachidule pamapeto pa nkhaniyi. Woyang'anira adatumiziranso ntchito mphunzitsi wotchuka komanso wophunzitsa zamaganizidwe amasewera kuti gulu lake "likhale pamalo oyenera". Ndipo zikuwoneka kuti zagwira ntchito pomwe Liverpool yasinthidwa kuchoka kumapeto kwa 6-7e mu ligi yakunyumba kukhala opikisana nawo pamitengo.
Tsopano monga amalonda pawokha sitingakwanitse kugwiritsa ntchito masewera otchuka a masewerawa kuti tipeze malingaliro abwino oti tipambane pamalonda, pomwe kukhala katswiri wa NLP kumakhalanso nthawi komanso ndalama zambiri, ndiye tingaphunzire chiyani zokhudzana ndi kutha kwa gulu limodzi ndipo pamapeto pake gulu limodzi liziwuka ndikugwiritsa ntchito pochita malonda?
Ochita bwino sataya luso lawo tsiku limodzi. Kungoganiza kuti ali okwanira ndipo akadali ndi zaluso lothamanga lomwe limawatsimikizira kuti ali pamwambamwamba ndipo atha kugwiritsa ntchito masewerawa pamwambamwamba, mwina osapitirira zaka 34, ndiye osewera osewerera padziko lapansi sataya mwadzidzidzi luso. Monga momwe zimanenedwera nthawi zambiri pamasewera - "mawonekedwe ndi osakhalitsa ndi okhazikika". Chifukwa chake osewera awa ayenera kubwezera mawonekedwe awo. Ayenera kusintha njira zawo, kulimbikira ntchito zina pazochita zophunzitsira, koma ndizotheka kuti malingaliro awo amafunika kusintha koposa zonse.
Osewerawa amafunika kukumbutsidwa, osati zaulemerero wawo waposachedwa, komanso momwe malingaliro a opambanawo adakhazikitsira panthawi yopambana komanso kufunikira kwa izi. Momwe iwo ndi ophunzitsira awo adapangira mawonekedwe ozungulira kuti gululi likule bwino. Osewera bwino pamasewera sangakhale ndi luso lokha, ma greats apadziko lonse monga Lionel Messi ndi Christiano Ronaldo amagwira ntchito molimbika pamalonda komanso pamasewera onse.
Kuperewera kwa mawonekedwe ndi zotsatira pamasewera titha kufananizidwa ndi ife kupirira kusowa kwa ndalama titataya. Titha kuyang'ana njira zathu, mwina pamasamba athu ophunzitsira - akaunti yowonetsera, kuti tithane ndi zovuta zilizonse zomwe tingakhale nazo. Kusowa kwathu chidaliro chonse mwina kuthetsedwa.
Mofananamo titha kubwerera pazoyambira ndikudziwunika ngati tikutsatira malingaliro athu ogulitsa. Tikhozanso kuyang'ana pamakalata athu amalonda kuti tiwone komwe tidachita bwino ndikufufuza mayankho a chifukwa chake zinali choncho. Kodi msika unali wosiyanasiyana, unali kuyenda, kodi tinasangalala ndi zopindulitsa pomwe mfundo zazikuluzikulu zidasinthidwa. Ngati chidaliro chathu chimamveka chofooka ndiye tikabwerera kumalo athu osewerera, m'malo mongoyesetsa mphindi makumi asanu ndi anayi zathunthu zamasewera, bwanji osapatula nthawi yathu yakulowa m'malo mwa wina mpaka malingaliro athu atakonzedwa?
Monga othamanga akatswiri monga ochita malonda osati tsiku lililonse ndi tsiku lopambana. Osati malingaliro aliwonse ndi njira yopambana, koma ngati tapambana tisanadziwe momwe tingakhazikitsire malingaliro athu kuti tiyambenso malonda. M'malo mwake malingaliro ena akale amasewera atha kukhala othandiza; "Zomwe sizimakupha zimakupanga kukhala wamphamvu". Ngati tasokonekera ndikuwonongeka kwakanthawi kwakanthawi tikachira pamalingaliro athu onse amalonda azikhala olimba kwambiri pamenepo.
NLP - Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) ndi njira yolumikizirana, chitukuko chaumwini, ndi psychotherapy yopangidwa ndi Richard Bandler ndi John Grinder ku California, United States m'ma 1970. Opanga ake amati kulumikizana pakati pamachitidwe amitsempha ("neuro"), chilankhulo ("chilankhulo") ndi machitidwe omwe amaphunzira kudzera muzochitika ("mapulogalamu") ndikuti izi zitha kusinthidwa kuti zikwaniritse zolinga zina m'moyo. Bandler ndi Grinder akuti maluso a anthu apadera atha "kutengera" pogwiritsa ntchito njira ya NLP, ndiye kuti malusowa atha kupezeka ndi aliyense. Bandler ndi Grinder amanenanso kuti NLP imatha kuthana ndi mavuto monga phobias, kukhumudwa, kusowa chizolowezi, matenda amisala, myopia, ziwengo, chimfine komanso zovuta kuphunzira, nthawi zambiri gawo limodzi. NLP yalandiridwa ndi akatswiri ena opatsirana pogonana komanso m'masemina omwe agulitsidwa ku bizinesi ndi boma.
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