I-PMA, igcina Isimo Sengqondo Esiqondile maqondana nokulindela kwakho okuhle
Manje ngaphambi kokuthi ucishe ukufunda isihloko ucabange; "nakhu sihamba, enye 'i-happy-clappy' ungashintsha uhlobo lomhlaba lwe-athikili yokuhweba ye-PMA" leyo akuyona inhloso, ngibekezelele ..
Njengabahwebi ngabodwana (enhliziyweni) singosomabhizinisi, sivame ukulikhohlwa lelo qiniso elilula, ikakhulukazi lapho sidikibala. Sisebenzisa amathuba ethu webhizinisi amancane akhiwe ngokuphelele futhi singaqhuba ibhizinisi lethu ngawo; ibhalansi yemali encane, i-iPad noma i-net-book kanye nokuxhumeka okungenantambo, lokho kuyinto enhle kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, nakhu okungalungile; alikho elinye ibhizinisi 'elingalimaza' njengokuhweba futhi kungalezo zikhathi eziphansi zokucabanga lapho kufanele sithathe khona isikhathi sokulinganisa imizwa yethu siphinde simise ingqondo yethu yokuhweba. Hmmm, lokho kugcina kuzwakala kufana nokubhuza kwengqondo esifuna ukukugwema ngakho-ke ake sikulungise ngokubeka indodakazi yami eneminyaka eyishumi nesishiyagalombili ubudala; "udinga ukubuyisa 'inathi' yakho emdlalweni" ..
Ukuba nesimo sengqondo esihle, akuwona umuzwa, kufanele kufundwe. Isimo somqondo okufanele uzenzele sona, kufanele uzifundise ukuzethemba kulo mdlalo. Uma ungenawo umcabango wabanqobi ngakho-ke udinga ukuqala ukuthuthukisa eyodwa futhi ngokushesha, kubaluleke kakhulu empumelelweni yakho yokuhweba yesikhathi esizayo njengecebo lakho nokuphathwa kwemali. Ukusebenzisa umusho engiwusebenzisayo lapho izingane zami ezindala zifuna amathuba; "usukulungele, unakho abakufunayo nabakudingayo, manje ngena esimilweni uthathe ithuba ngaphambi kokwenza komunye umuntu". Ukuziqeqeshela ukuba ne-PMA maqondana nesikhathi sakho esihle sokuhweba ngeke kufike ngokushesha, kuqhathanise nokuba yibhande elimnyama kwezobuciko bokulwa; kuthatha iminyaka futhi abaculi abaningi bokulwa bafakazela ukuthi kuphela lapho befika esimweni sebhande elimnyama lapho ukufunda kwabo kwaqala khona ngempela.
Manje sengiyisilazi esingu-51% umfana ogcwele i-kinda, i-realist enethemba. Ngihlangane nabantu 'abajabulayo' abacwebezela unomphela ababonakala benziwe ngamakristalu acwebezelayo abawafungelayo ababanikeze ithemba labo. Ukuba senkampanini yabo kungakhathaza ngokulinganayo ngokomzwelo njengokuhlala ekamelweni labasekeli bebhola endaweni yokucima ukoma ngemuva kokuthi iqembu labo lehlisiwe, ngakho-ke i-antenna yami yokudlidliza idlidlizela ngokufutheka lapho ibhekene nezinhlelo ezijwayelekile zolimi lwe-neuro ezikhuluma. Ikakhulukazi uma kwenziwa ngabadlali abayizimfundamakhwela okungenzeka ukuthi bashiye ikhanda lakho lingcolile ngokuphelele kunokuba bashiywe emafwini benze 'ukucabanga okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka'. Kepha kufanele ngivume ukuthi ngikhetha kakhulu imishwana ethile kanye nosizo 'lomqondo womhwebi', ikakhulukazi uma iphinda izwakala futhi ingena unomphela ezindabeni zami ezimpunga ezisele phambili emqondweni wami wokuhweba. Kunombuzo engiziphoqa ukuba ngiwukhumbule ekuqaleni kosuku ngalunye lokuhweba, umbuzo uthi; "yini embi kakhulu engenzeka?
Okubi kakhulu okungenzeka namuhla ukuthi ngilahlekelwe yi-5% ye-akhawunti yami yokuhweba. Leyo yingozi eyakhelwe ngaphakathi 'yokuphuma' engozini uhlelo lwami lokuhweba olunayo. Uma ngiphula lokho ngimane ngiyeke ukuhweba ngosuku. Ngikhumbula ukuthi ngingumhwebi ojimayo nesikhundla, engabeka engcupheni engaphansi kwamaphesenti amabili e-akhawunti ngokuhweba ngakunye, ngidinga ngokwesilinganiso ukulahlekelwa imisebenzi emithathu ochungechungeni futhi ngiphume okwesithathu ngaphambi kokuthi kufinyelele esitobhini esinzima ukuze ukulahlekelwa ngu-5%. Ngingaqala ngokuzethemba usuku lokuhweba ngazi ukuthi lokho kuphansi kwami. Ngakho-ke okubi kakhulu okungenzeka ngilahlekelwe yimali, ngizosinda, ibhizinisi lami ngeke lisebenze, awukho umcimbi wangaphandle ongabulala ibhizinisi lami, ngikwazi ukuhweba ngokuzethemba ngazi ukuthi ngisazoba kulo mdlalo.
Imakethe ingamandla angaphandle, ungazivumela uvumele izinto zangaphandle zikulawule, imvamisa zidala isimo sengqondo esingesihle, noma ungakhetha ukuzuza nokugcina umbono omuhle. Nasi esinye isifundo esibalulekile engisifunde kusenesikhathi emsebenzini wami omusha wokuhweba; qinisekisa ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho kokuhweba okungekuhle kuguqulwa kube nakho okuhle ngokubenza babe nolwazi lokufunda. Kuhlala kunokuthile okubalulekile okutholakala esimweni esingesihle. Sesha bese udonsela ukunaka kwakho kokuhle. Esikhundleni sokuzigxeka ngemuva kokwenza iphutha, funda kokuhlangenwe nakho bese uqhubeka. Yini oyifundile ngawe nokuhweba kwakho, imaphi amakhono amasha owathuthukisile, ngisho namakhono amancane wokubhekana nawo?
Singaba kanjani nethemba lapho sihlushwa ukuhweba okulahlekile? Zama ukumaka lolu hlu lokuhlola kwengqondo ngemuva kokuzibuza; "jikelele ngangiluhlelile uhlelo lokuhweba nokuhweba?"
- Ngabe ngithathe ukuhweba kwami ngokuya ngesexwayiso sami, noma ngenhloso ebekiwe ngaphambili nezimo?
- Ngabe ngiqaphele imicimbi yezindaba?
- Ngisethe isitobhi sami?
- Ngabe ngibeke isitobhi sami ngenkathi ngicabanga; izinombolo ezinkulu eziyindilinga, ukumelana, ukusekelwa kanye nezilinganiso zokhiye ezihamba phambili?
- Ngabe ngiphumile futhi ngabheka ukuhweba ngezikhathi ezibalulekile njengoba kunqunywe uhlelo lwami?
Ungangeza olunye uhlu lwakho lwesheke, kepha ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uthola umbono ojwayelekile. Uma ulandela uhlelo lwakho kuningi okuhle okufanele kukhishwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho okulahlekelwayo. Ungazihalalisela ngokusebenzisa isiyalo esiphelele. Kunezifundo ezingafundwa ngokulahlekelwa ngamathenda, emdlalweni wethu lezi zifundo zingabiza, kepha zonke izinkinga zokuhweba ziyithuba lokufunda elifihlekile. Uzowenza amaphutha, wamukele lelo qiniso bese uqhubeka wazi ukuthi uzothatha isinqumo esihlukile ngokuzayo. Njenganoma imuphi umkhuba, umkhuba wokuhlala unethemba kuzo zonke izimo uthatha ukuzijwayeza nokuzibophezela kuwe ukulawula. Kepha qala kancane, qala ukunaka imizwa yakho, qala ngokufuna ukuguquka.
Lapho abathengisa benza umkhuba omubi uzibona usendaweni ekahle futhi enokuzethemba. Ukuziqinisekisa (uhlu lwezitatimende ezinhle ngawe nesithombe sakho) kuyithuluzi elilula nelinamandla lokuqeqesha isazela sakho ukuze uzibone usesimweni esihle. Lokhu kubalulekile, njengoba iningi lethu lingaba lukhuni kithi ngokwasimo senhlalo; okuthiwa sonke kufanele silwele, kufanele sivumelane. Umsebenzi onzima nokusebenza kanzima hhayi izici ezibalulekile zomhwebi ophumelele 'emsebenzini ohlakaniphile' okhethe ukuphuma 'kwabayisishiyagalolunye kuya kwabahlanu', ngakho-ke ungakhothameli isimo senhlalo, wamukele isinqumo sakho sokuma eceleni kwesixuku ..
Isivivinyo sangempela somuntu sokuhlala ethembekile kulapho inselelo. Ukungatholakali kalula kuyathathelana; akugcini nje ngokuthinta umuntu, kepha kusabalala kunoma ngubani abahlanganyela naye. Ukuqeda ukunganaki, noma kunalokho, ukuba nesimo sengqondo esihle kungatholwa nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, futhi kuphenduke umkhuba. Noma ngabe uhle noma unecala, isimo ozithola ukuso asishintshi, ngakho-ke nathi singaba nethemba ..
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