Ngaba kufuneka sizame ukugcina kunye nokunciphisa umda worhwebo olubi, okanye ulwamkele kwaye uqhubeke?

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Kungakhathaliseki ukuba sikholelwa kangakanani indlela yethu yokurhweba, kungakhathaliseki ukuba isicwangciso sethu sokurhweba sisomelele kangakanani kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba sigqibelele kangakanani sikholelwa ukuba isicwangciso sethu sokurhweba bonke abathengisi (ngamanye amaxesha) baya kubanjwa kwiintengiso 'ezihamba kakubi' naphezu kwethu ukulandela isicwangciso sethu sokurhweba kunye nokwenza isicwangciso sethu sokurhweba kule leta.

Amashishini anokuhamba kakubi kwangoko xa kungenwa; soze siye kwingeniso kwaye sitshintshe umendo ngokukhawuleza, okanye sinokufumana uhlobo lobuchwephesha bobuchwephesha. Sinokufumana umqondiso wokungena njengempembelelo enkulu yesiganeko seendaba kodwa sibanjwe njengesixhobo sokhuseleko ukubuyisa kwakhona. Ngamafutshane kukho uninzi lwezizathu zokuba kutheni urhwebo olunokubakho, urhwebo olwenziwe ngokwesicwangciso sethu sokurhweba, lunokuhamba kakubi.

Kweli nqaku siza kujonga ukuba ngawaphi amanyathelo olawulo esinokubeka kuwo ukuzikhusela kuthengiso olubi kwaye ukuba kukho nayiphi na imiqobo yokuthintela umonakalo esinokuyisebenzisa kwisicwangciso sethu sokurhweba ngaphaya kwezixhobo ezingacacanga zokulahleka ezinokunceda. sibeka umda kumonakalo kwiiakhawunti zethu zorhwebo.

Akukho mfuneko yokuba sicinge “ngokulondoloza” urhwebo olubi, eyona nto sinokuyenza kukuvula nokuvala urhwebo

Nangona kubuso bayo ingxelo elula kakhulu kukho inyani kunye nengqondo kule liner enye. Urhwebo kufuneka luvulwe kwaye luvaliwe ngokwesicwangciso sethu sokurhweba, akukho zorhwebo kufuneka zenziwe ngaphandle kweso sicwangciso. Eyona nto sinokuyenza kukuvula nokuvala urhwebo njengenxalenye yeso sicwangciso kwaye emva koko silula nje kwimalike esingenakho ukuyilawula. Singachaphazela kuphela utshintsho kwezo zinto zorhwebo sinokuzilawula.

Kuya kufuneka sithathe kuphela urhwebo esinalo lokuzithemba nge-100% xa sitsala i-trigger

Nangona sithatha kuphela urhwebo oluthobela i-100% kwisicwangciso sethu kwaye ngenxa yoko sinokholo kwi-100%, kuya kuhlala kukho izinto esizifumanayo sinqwenela ukuba singazithathi. Asinakuze sithathe urhwebo olunokuthi lube yi-100% ngokuqinisekileyo okanye luqinisekile. Ke ngoko, siza kungena kwimisebenzi esinqwenela ukuba singaze sibe nayo kwiindawo ezithile kwikhondo lethu lokuthengisa. Xa sicofa kolo ngqinisiso lweodolo, senze konke esinako ukukhusela umngcipheko endaweni yethu ngamathuba aphezulu. Ukuba asiqinisekanga ukuba siyenzile le nto, emva koko akufuneki sicofe isiqinisekiso somyalelo.

Ukuvavanya kwangoko ukuba kutheni urhwebo luchasene nawe

Masizibeke kwimeko ephilayo; sikude ngoku i-Aussie ingene ekuqaleni kuka-Epreli, malunga ne-4 ka-Epreli. Nangona kunjalo, ukubukela urhwebo luza kwinzuzo ebalulekileyo, malunga neepips ezili-100, ejonga inyathelo lamaxabiso namhlanje, emva kokufunda lonke uhlalutyo olusisiseko lwamva kwaye sabona inzuzo yethu ngoku inyuka, sijonga ukuba siyeke urhwebo lwethu kwaye siqwalasele ukubuyela umva. indlela yethu yorhwebo. Kodwa owona mbandela ubini; imiqondiso yethu yokumisa urhwebo lwethu ayikhange ibangele kwaye asifumananga nasiphi na isibonakaliso sokuthatha urhwebo olufutshane. Okwangoku 'sinamathele' kumhlaba womntu, urhwebo ngoku luphantsi kwamanzi, kodwa alukafikeleli kwinqanaba lethu lokuma kwaye akukho nasinye sezalathi esithembele kusenzelwa urhwebo. Ngeli xesha ke xa izakhono zethu zokuthengisa zonyukela phezulu. Ngaba siyavala kwangoko kwaye sithathe ilahleko, siyathemba ukuba urhwebo luyajika kwaye lunamathele kulo, okanye silinde nje ukuba uphawu lwethu luvalwe lufike?

Ukurhweba kumhlaba womntu

Sikhankanyile ngaphambili ibinzana elithi "akukho mntu womntu" ngokunxulumene nokuthengisa, into esiyithethayo ngale nto iphindwe kabini. Nokuba sisebenza ngaphandle kwesicwangciso sethu sokurhweba kwaye sithatha urhwebo olungahambelani neekhrayitheriya zethu ezibekwe kwisicwangciso, okanye ukuzifumana 'sisorhwebo oluphakathi' kwaye sithandabuza ukuba ngaba kufanelekile ukuba sisebenzise ukuqonda kwethu ukuphazamisa urhwebo ngesandla . Ngaba kunjalo ngempendulo kwi-Aussie yorhwebo conundrum (ukuba ngoku siyathandabuza) njengoko ngoku ikwisithili esibi ukuba ungabanjwa kumhlaba womntu? Ewe impendulo emfutshane. Sisenokusebenzisa inkqubo yethu yokurhweba esekwe kwisalathiso ukuvala urhwebo ngokungenalusini kwaye ngaphandle kokuthandabuza kwaye silinde umqondiso wethu wokunqumamisa ukhuseleko, okanye siphazamise ngesandla ngaphandle kokuthandabuza, into esingayenziyo kukumisa izinto zethu, ukulandela umkhondo okanye kungenjalo, kwi Zingela ukuba urhwebo luya 'kubuya' ngendlela yethu.

Wazi umngcipheko wethu ngaphambi kokuba singene

Zonke iziphumo zalo naluphi na urhwebo kufuneka lubhalwe kwimephu ngaphambi kokuba kuthathwe urhwebo. Asazi ukuba kuzakwenzeka ntoni, kodwa kufuneka sazi ukuba siza kwenza ntoni kuluhlu lwethu lweziphumo ezinokubakho. Akukho mfuneko “yokonga” nantoni na esenza nje oko besiceba ukukwenza. Urhwebo olulungileyo lolo lusekwe kwimigaqo yendlela yethu kwaye urhwebo olubi lolunye esiluthathe sophula imithetho yethu kukubaleka kwegazi. Ngandlel 'ithile isiphumo sokurhweba kokubini asinamsebenzi malunga nokuba silungile okanye sibi.

Urhwebo olubi kuphela olukhoyo oluchasene nemithetho yakho

Kuyinyani ukuba urhwebo ngamanye amaxesha alusebenzi, ngenxa yoko simane sivale urhwebo kwaye siqhubeke. Ukuba singene kurhwebo ngokusekwe kwimithetho yethu ibiyintengiso elungileyo. Imakethi yenza le nto ifuna ukuyenza ngaphandle kokurhweba. Sifumana iseti yemithetho evelisa ulindelo oluqinisekileyo kwaye siyayithengisa, asifumani moya ojikelezayo kurhwebo olungasebenziyo.

Ayilulo lonke urhwebo olugqibela njengophumeleleyo. Kwaye ayingabo bonke abaphumeleleyo urhwebo olulungileyo kwaye ayilulo lonke urhwebo olulahlekileyo lurhwebo olubi. Asinakho ukwenza imali ngalo lonke urhwebo. Ungazami ukunqanda ukulahleka kwemisebenzi. Yenza imigaqo kwaye unamathele kuyo. Kuphela kwendlela yokuphumelela kolu shishino.